Wishing Wells - asking for money instead of gifts
for money is not a “new” idea
by any means, and recent bridal surveys and forums show that 60%
of couples are now doing so. Enquiries for our Wishing Wells and
how they work, have tripled so far this year. The secret of course,
is to find a tasteful way of “asking” which pleases most
and will compliment the elegant surroundings you both have worked
hard to create at your reception.
The concept and process is quite simple. A brief note is
sent out with the wedding invitations, Below are some wording
ideas which you can use on your invitations.
Invitation Script 1
Friends, as you are aware we already have most items needed
to 'set up house'. This is the reason for us choosing a wedding
wishing well. At the reception there will be a wishing well
in which we would love to receive your greeting card and
contribution. This will be a great way for us to pool together
and buy ourselves something quite luxurious, or to make our
honeymoon even better.
Invitation Script 2
To support us on our special day you may wish to follow
with tradition and bring a gift. Or alternatively you may
like to help us make our honeymoon a little more special.
For this reason we have chosen a wedding wishing well. The
wishing well will be at the reception where we can receive
your best wishes and contribution.
Invitation Script 3
They have their dishes and towels for two
They have pots and pans and oven mitts too
So what do you get for the Bride & Groom
Whose house is setup in every room?
Their house needs repairs and some upgrades too
But you can not register for carpet and glue.
A well that holds wishes is the way to go
So lets make it easy for all that know.
An envelope will be provided for those who have room,
To give a monetary wish to the Bride and Groom
A wishing well will be on display at the reception hall
To attach your wishes, for the couple, with love from all.
Invitation Script 4
Because at first we
lived in sin
We've got the sheets and a rubbish bin
A gift from you would be swell
But we'd prefer a donation to our Wishing Well!!
Invitation Script 5
More than just kisses
so far we've shared,
Our home has been made with Love and Care,
Most things we need we've already got,
And in our home we can't fit a lot!
A wishing well we thought would be great,
(But only if you wish to participate),
A gift of money is placed in the well,
Then make a wish .... but shhh don't tell!
Once we've replaced the old with the new,
We can look back and say it was thanks to you!
And in return for your kindness, we're sure
That one day soon you will get what you wished for.
Invitation Script 6
Soon you will hear our
As Friends and family wish us well.
Our household thoughts are not brand new,
We have twice the things we need for two.
Since we have our share of dishes and bedding,
We're having instead a wishing well wedding.
But more important we ask of you,
your prayers of love and blessings too!
Invitation Script 7
This wishing well is
here today for family and friends. Take an
envelope, make a wish and please drop it in. As it falls
well your wish, for the couple, will come true. A token for
couple, to help them begin, will be welcomed, too. Please
time to make a wish before the day is through.
Invitation Script 8
Now we are to be Mr & Mrs
We don't need a wedding list of dishes
we have two kettles, two toasters, two microwaves
We require a house for which we have to save.
If you would like to give us a gift,
A cheque or vouchers would give us a lift
We like to think of it as our 'Wishing Well'
Which will be filled with your love, we can tell.
Invitation Script 9
Our home is quite complete now,
we've been together long,
so please consider our request and do not take us wrong.
A delicate request it is, we hope you understand.
Please play along as it will give our married life a hand.
The tradition of the wishing well is one that's known by all.
Go to the well, toss in a coin and as the coin does fall,
Make a wish upon that coin and careful as you do.
Cause as the well's tradition goes your wishes will come true.
So on this special day of ours, the day that we'll be wed.
Don't hunt for special gifts but give money in it's stead.
And as you drop the envelope with money great and small,
Remember, make your wish as you watch your money fall.
Invitation Script 10
"We've been together a few years now;
we have pots
and pans and linen and towels;
we have glasses and toasters,
really quite a few;
so instead of more gifts, we suggest
this to you;
if it doesn't offend and it won't send you running;
what we would really appreciate is quite simply money;
know choosing gifts can be such a pain;
and this way there
is no chance of bringing the same."
What do you think?
Invitation Script 11
"If you were thinking
of giving a gift, to help us on our way.
A gift of cash towards our house, would really make our day.
However, if you prefer to purchase a gift, feel free to surprise
us in your own way."
Invitation Script 12
"We really would appreciate a little money of our own,
instead of a little gift for our new home!"
you want to find something nice
But it's such a hassle to
find the right price
So come and enjoy the day all sunny
We really would appreciate a little money.
Invitation Script 13
To save you looking, shopping or buying.
Here is an idea,
we hope you like trying.
Come to our wedding, to wish us
And bring this small sack, to throw in our wishing
Fill it with paper all colours will do, gold is our
favourite but silver will do.
Now that we have saved you,
all of that fuss.
We hope you will come, and celebrate with
Wishing Wells Online
Make a wish online at the eWishBox wishing well.
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